Friday, February 12, 2010
Valentine's day - revisited. Very much UNLIKE brideshead
...somehow my last post was blank...
What in the hell? I was all proud of my post! I wrote about this "sex" section in our local free newspaper "the scene" where people felt the need to send in their complaints about how they're wives won't put out.
I'm not going to go into detail like I did earlier, mostly because I don't have the time but here is my comment to all those men that like to say "no matter what I do, my wife would sleep with me."
I think that you're probably lying and that you don't try and I'll never understand why you think the best way to solve that problem it to belittle her in the press.
The post was homage to all those people out there that love and are in love with their partners and can tell them this without being prompted by Hallmark, Hershey's and FTD.
The best way to keep your sex life going, after years of being together is communication. I've been with my hubby for closing in on 9 years and we have sex a few times a week. (Unless someone's sick, or feel down the steps and hurt themselves, or because we're in different states - otherwise GAME ON!)
What I'm trying to convey (ever so poorly) is that I'm tired of hearing guys complain that their women won't have sex with them. We get it, you just need a warm moist place and you have to "work" to get us there - poor you. We have to clean up after you like your a four year old.
So, instead of complaining, or just waiting till the media told you to turn off that the bachelor (because staring at human bobble heads is interesting to you) and buy her a candy bar next tuesday - "just 'cause!" And next year when some local rag is attempting to over glorify a meaningless holiday that is being celebrated mostly because you feel guilty - just go back to looking at porn and stop thinking we care that you are a self absorbed jerk.
Guess what? We already knew that.
P.S. I'm in a lot of pain today - which should explain my rage...